In between the self-effacing attempts at humour and the ambiguous medical reports is a woman in menopause. I have used humour myself but the truth is, it is not all that funny. No woman enjoys the extreme mood swings, muddied thinking, hot flashes, and assorted other symptoms that ebb and flow over a span of years. Not to mention the affect that fluctuating hormones is having on our intimate relationships.
I am not asking for drugs, quite the contrary if you look in my medicine cabinet you would die from boredom. There is a jar of Vicks, pills for my Afib and some Bufferin.
It is the fact that nine years into the 21st century I would have expected more in the way of unbiased research and possible options.
Hormone therapy has been a roller coaster of benefits vs risks since the ‘60s this all culminated in 2002 with the Women’s Health Initiative study. Controversy continues to swirl around drugs such as Premarin and Prempro not the least of which is how it is obtained from pregnant mares’ urine.
Understandably weary of the whole HT approach of “we’ll get it right, even if we just lower the risks to your overall good health”; women started to look to the bioidentical option that has became part of the menopause fray. Suzanne Somers and Robin McGraw have marketed themselves as part of the next big menopause solution package. This is also equally unnerving. I mean you are probably lovely ladies (call me we’ll do lunch) but in reality you are just baby boomer women; the difference is you have the money and resources to get books published and garner media hype. However you are not experts in any field.
My concern is that menopause is quickly becoming another money making health condition. Once it reaches that status we the real women of menopause; will never be offered anything more than quick fixes, snake oil scams, self-help fluff and pharmaceutical companies trying to ‘cure’ us. Or are we already there?
Jill: So true isn’t it? I agree, menopause has become another industry.
I too have reservations about the bioidentical hormones…they’re still drugs aren’t they? I guess each woman has to find by trial & error, her unique way to balance herself body, mind & spirit, but it ain’t easy!
Ellen
Do not go quietly into that good night ladies. Consider this – my heart attack happened on the first day of my period, my next period put me back in the hospital and I haven’t had a period since.
Menopause is a dangerous time to ignore your body or mask its messages with drugs.
Take care of yourself and make sure your doctor does too.
my mother had menopause on her mid forty’s and i dont remember she is taking hormonal supplements. She is 59 now and she is still ok aside from her old sickness Ulcer. Is it really necessary?